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When your dog has died: what to do now, and what can wait

If your dog has just died, very little has to happen in the next hour. This page goes through what does, in order, and what can wait until you are ready. Where rules differ, they depend on where you live; your vet will know them.

In the first hour

  1. Ask someone to come and be with you, if you can.
  2. If your dog died at home, call your vet. They can tell you what happens next and arrange cremation.
  3. Take the time to say goodbye. Other animals in the house can say goodbye too.
  4. Before the body goes, take what you want to keep: the collar, a clipping of fur, a paw print.

If your dog died at home

You cannot wait long, so keep the body cool while you decide. From the pet insurer Embrace's advice:

Cremation or burial

In the days after

A few calls and records, so reminders stop arriving. Not all of them apply everywhere.

What can wait

Children and other animals

Tell children plainly that the dog has died, with the word “died”. Other animals in the house may search for the dog or eat less for a while; keep their routine the same.

Later: keeping what they did

Bruno was a Great Dane, 2016 to 2024. In his last year he and Hein kept to the short route, and he still waited at every fork for Hein to choose the way. His book is an example of a memorial book made from answers and photos, not a customer's book.

  • On the woodland path, the last year. He walked ahead of me and looked back.
    Bruno23

    The last year

    Bruno made it to eight, which is old for a Great Dane. In that last year Hein and he kept to the short route instead of the long one. But little else changed: he still walked ahead of Hein, still looked back, and still stopped and waited at every fork until Hein caught up and chose.

    Bruno24

If the grief is heavy

Grief after a dog dies can be as heavy as after a person. The grief guide covers what is normal, other pets in the house, and where to find support.

Questions

How long can I keep my dog's body at home?

Not long. Keep it wrapped and cool, and call your vet or a pet crematorium the same day if you can.

Can I bury my dog in the garden?

That depends on where you live, so ask your vet or the local authority. Where it is allowed, dig deep, and not after chemotherapy or a contagious disease.

What does the vet do with my dog's body?

They can arrange cremation: communal, with no ashes returned, or individual, with the ashes returned to you.

Do I need to tell the microchip company?

Yes. It closes the record. In some countries it is required.

What do I do with my dog's things?

Nothing yet, if you are not ready. Some people keep the collar or the lead; unopened food and spare toys can go to a rescue.

For someone else who lost a dog

Give a book about their dog in memory. They make it when they are ready, within a year.

Give the gift

Gift €34.99. The eBook and the hardcover, shipping included. Or the eBook alone for €6.99. The recipient makes the book themselves. Valid one year.

Make a memorial book about your dog.

Make one for your pet

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